Why is it so difficult to forgive?

Why is it so difficult to forgive? There are those who were the closest of friends who have never talked to each other again. There are relatives that have closed their ties because there is no forgiveness. How do we eliminate the barrier?

It is the dust of arrogance that breaks the bond, and it is the same dust that prevents us from connecting the bond. What is arrogance? Arrogance is the feeling of superiority due to having more than someone. This can be more education, more knowledge, more money, more power, or even more religious values (moral).  Many times, when we accuse or judge a person we are using the dust of arrogance. We are at risk of breaking a bond.  Sometime the bonds are close to breaking, like a rope that is ready to snap. But whether it is a weak or strong bond, once the bond breaks, it is difficult to unite again.

How do we connect the bond? We must eliminate arrogance. But unless both parties remove the dust, it will be extremely difficult.  To forgive, without removing arrogance is like a bandage over an amputation. The forgiveness will not work.  Both parties must make herculean efforts to remove their arrogance. 

Advertisements

About heaventruth

A fundamentalist in the translation and interpretation of the Book of Prophecy (Ofudesaki), as it relates to the world today and in the future.
This entry was posted in Buddhist, Christianity, God, Hinduism, joyous life, Tenrikyo and tagged , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s