The Monthly Period is the Flower

 

Since the beginning of time, females have been mistakenly considered second class citizens. Even today, females are considered inferior to their male counterparts in many parts of the world.  In our country, it was not until the nineteen century, that females eventually got the right to vote. But what is the thinking  that delegates females to a lower status?  Until the modern period, the bleeding that accompanied childbirth and menstruation was seen as unclean and thus abhorred as “defiled blood” and was a cause of discrimination against women  throughout the world. Could it be this reproductive mechanism that causes society to think that women are inferior? *

The following is a conversation between Oyasama (female) and a male follower who Oyasama thought was treating his wife as a second class citizen. As they were both looking out into the fields. She stated:

“Did you notice those pumpkins and eggplants? They are big, aren’t they? The plants bear fruit because the flowers bloom. Not a single plant bears fruit without its flower. Now ponder deeply. The world says woman is unclean, but there is nothing unclean about woman. Man and woman are equally children  of God and there is no discrimination. Woman has a duty, a duty to bear children. Her monthly period is the flower. Without the flower there is no fruit.   Understand this well. Take the pumpkin; if its big flower is gone, that is the end of it. In many things, there are flowers that bear no fruit. But to bear fruit without any flower is impossible. Ponder deeply. There is nothing unclean about it.”

There are definitely differences between males and females, especially physically. What was once thought as a negative attribute (menstruation) , should now be thought as a positive attribute.  The blood is God’s preparation for the growth of the future generation of children that will inhabit the earth. Without this cleansing,  both males and females will cease to exist. Because of this special reproductive process delegated to women,  should we not view women as superior to men?

*resource from tenrikyology.com

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Adorn the Mind

We believe that the mind is our to use as we please, but the body is borrowed from God.  As any thing borrowed, we must take care of it, and eventually return it with its normal wear and tear.  It is with this knowledge that we must adorn the mind, and not the body and its adornments. Adorn the mind by removing greed, arrogance and self love from your mind.   It is the heart and the soul which we should treasure and adorn, and not the body. The following episode is from the Ancecdotes of Oyasama.

Tokichi Izumita engaged himself in missionary work while selling sweet potatoes in Osaka. After closing shop for the day, he would always return to Jiba that night and return to Osaka before dawn after hearing some of the teachings firsthand.

One day, he was held up by three highway robbers on his way to Jiba on the Jusan Pass—a mountain pass linking Yamato Province to Osaka which he usually took.

The teaching of “a thing lent, a thing borrowed” which he had been instructed in flashed in his head. Tokichi then took off his coat and other pieces of clothing as the robbers demanded and placed his wallet on top of them. He sat on the ground on his knees, bowed, and said, “I am grateful that I was allowed to borrow these items for such a long time. Please go ahead and take them home with you.”

However, when Tokichi raised his head, there was no sign of the robbers. They had fled without taking a single thing, possibly because they were spooked and uneasy at how Tokichi was all too willing to comply with their demands. But it might of also been due to God’s protection due to Tokichi’s purity of mind.

In summary, It is prudent to take care of your body loaned to you by God But more important  is to adorn the mind and the soul which will live for eternity.  God will provide protection when your mind is pure.

*resource from Tenrikyology.com

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Grace

How do we say grace before we partake in our dinners. Of course there are many families that say nothing before their meals.  The first to be thanked is usually God in our grace. But sometime we take for granted all the efforts that were used to put the food on our tables.  The following is a quote from Oyasama upon seeing animals such as fishes or pheasant served at the meal:

Everyone, when you eat them, please say ‘delicious, delicious,’ to them. If you eat them with delight, due to the principle of giving joy, the next time they will be advanced. Each time they are reborn, they will progress closer to man.

This may be  unusual for most people to say thanks to the food we consume. For those who believe in evolution and reincarnation, this may make sense; but even for those who do not believe,  giving thanks to nature may not be out of the norm.

The following are observances from a friend:

Appreciate the many people and their efforts that helped bring and prepare the food on our plates.

The plants and animals we are about to eat once harbored life. Have compassion for them as we are partaking their life when we eat them.

Appreciate the blessings of heaven and earth that allowed everything to grow before becoming the ingredients for the food we are about to eat.

Appreciate the workings of the body that digests the food we partake, turns it into nutrients, and discharges what is not necessary. *

In summary, food goes in and comes out. Fortunately it is not as simple as it sounds.  By the grace of God, many remarkable events and tasks must  occur before we have digested the last morsel of food.  Imagine also  the myriads of things that must of occurred before that meal  is placed before us.  We have much and many to be thankful for!

* Resource from Tenrikyology.com

 

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How Important is Work

 

How important is it for people to work? May it give them a purpose in life? Whether it be a job outside or a job taking care of the household, it appears that working hard is very important for the sustenance of happiness.

The importance of working is emphasized in the following. One day Oyasama took three unhulled rice grains and placed them one after another in the palm of a recent follower’s hand, saying:

This one is for rising early, this one for honesty, and this one for hard work. Hold these firmly in your hand. You must make sure that you never lose them.

Another time she was quoted:

Working hard out the sight of others and praising others is honesty. If you do not put into practice what you hear, you yourself will become a lie. If you continue to work, saying to yourself, ‘Just a little more, just a little bit more’; this is not greed, it is work that comes from true sincerity.

Early rising is a no brainer. When we wake up early, we can prepare to work more and accomplish more. Praising others for their hard work, while also working hard without complaining to others will bring joy to God. It is this mind set of people working together that will bring joy to the world.

The current economy of  unemployment and  welfare increases the number of people who resign to waking up late, watching endless hours of television, and succumbing to some of the vices of the street. This is why it is important to find these people a purpose of life, or to find them jobs. When more people are working hard with a positive attitude, there will be less crimes, and more joy and sharing of our prosperity.  The three virtues of life may be early rising, honesty, and hard work.

* source from Tenrikyology.com

 

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Work that Becomes Virtue

Have you experienced co-workers who complain about every task they accomplish. Besides irritating their co-workers, nothing usually gets accomplished by their tirades. There is a story in the Anecdotes of Oyasama, which concerns a follower of the religion.

During this time, Chuzaburo was ordered by a prison guard to clean the toilets. When he returned from toilet cleaning, Oyasama asked him:

“What do you think of having been brought to this kind of place and even having been made to clean such filthy places as toilets?”

When Chuzaburo answered, “I think I am serving God whatever I do. Considering this, I am very happy,” Oyasama gave him the following instruction:

“You are right. If you do something with gratitude, no matter how hard or unpleasant it may be, your virtue will reach heaven. Virtue, which is accepted by God, will be turned to joy. But no matter how hard or trying the work that you do may be, if you do it complaining, ‘How hard it is, how I hate it,’ the complaints will also reach heaven and be returned to you in kind.                            ”Anecdotes of Oyasama 144, “The Virtue

No matter how difficult our jobs, or how unpleasant it may seem to others, if we work hard with a positive attitude, we sow a happy future. But if we complain while we work, the negativity may result in an unhappy future.

How do we gain and continue this positive attitude? If our minds are pure (without greed, arrogance, and self love), it becomes easier for us to have a spirited mind, even in conditions, which may depress others. It is with this pure mind that one must work hard to sow a seed of joy.

* Source from Tenrikyology.com

 

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Choice of Words

Sometimes it is our attitude and the choice of words that we use that can have a profound effect on the person who we are trying to convey our message. For example Oyasama once told a follower:

All the work that you consider your own matter becomes your own. All you the work that you consider someone else’s matter belong to someone else.

When we are able to consider another person’s matter as our own, our attitude changes from “I’m doing you a favor” and “I’m doing this for you” to “Please allow me to do this for you.” This is how our faith in this path ought to be. *

When we realize that helping others brings upon our own salvation, the phrase “Please allow me to do this for you will” will become easier to say from our own mouths. The phrase also makes the recipient more comfortable to receive the help. As we all know, sometimes it is very difficult to ask for help from others.

Sometimes the urge to volunteer or help others becomes stagnant. But if we realize that true joy can only be the result of shared joy, then matters of others become our concerns. When we realize this , helping others becomes an important goal. Then the phrase “Please allow me to do this for you” will become part of your daily routine!

* from the Tenrikyology.com website

 

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All Days are Lucky Days

 

In Japan today it is customary to plan a wedding on an auspicious day and avoid certain days that are considered unlucky. The same goes for funerals, as certain days are considered inappropriate. Such long-held customs emerged when the Chinese calendar that was brought to Japan took on a life of its own and began to regulate the lives of the Japanese people. *

The custom of picking the right day is not limited to the East; it is done in Western cultures as well. One can see this in how Friday the 13th is detested because it is seen as an ominous day. Also due to the twin tower attack on Sept 11th, 9-11 is not considered an auspicious day for any celebrations. *

But Oyasama said,

“There is not a single day which you ought to complain about. All days are lucky days. People choose a lucky day for a wedding or for raising [the ridge-beam of] a house. But the luckiest day is the day when everybody is spirited in mind.”

 “Thirty days make a month, twelve months make a year. There is not a single unlucky day in the whole year.”

Anecdotes of Oyasama 173, “All Days Are Lucky Days”

But what is a spirited mind? Is a spirited mind a day when everything seems perfect, like after drinking a cup of highly caffeinated coffee?

Another definition of a spirited mind is:

A spirited mind is when our minds are free from greed, arrogance, and self love; and when we know from our hearts that all mankind was created to live a joyous life by helping each other.  It is from this mind that hope, compassion and love develop.

Someone once said luck is when preparation meets opportunity. It is when we prepare our minds to be pure (without greed, arrogance, and self love), that we can turn any event or occurrence into a lucky day.  It is from this  mind set that everyday can be a lucky day.

* from the Tenrikyology.com website

 

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Forgiveness/revised

What is the hardest thing for a human being to do? Some world say it is to apologize. But I would say it is to forgive someone. Why is forgiveness so difficult for human beings? To forgive someone requires one to recognize fault in oneself. This fault is our arrogance in judging others. Having arrogance leads to anger and condemnation, placing a future wall between the two people.

How many times in life have you thought you were right, and the other person was wrong?  But did we have all the information to make that judgment? Probably not, but we became judge, jury, and sentenced the person to banishment from further communication with us. We do not have access to everyone’s thoughts and past experiences to judge fairly. When we make judgment on others , its shows our arrogance. Disagreement with others are not vices, but when emotions of anger and grudge bearing emerge, then arrogance may be present in our minds. It is with this knowledge that we must try to build back the bridge with forgiveness.

As God forgives you, you may also want to forgive others that you think have done you wrong. To forgive someone does not free the other person from guilt or blame. But it may begin to free you from the anger and suffering that results from having arrogance. By removing arrogance,your mind becomes pure, and your future becomes joyous. Forgiveness is the beginning of the Joyous world!  Pray and ask God to give you  the heart to forgive others.

 

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Forgiveness

What is the hardest thing for a human being to do? Some world say it is to apologize. But I would say it is to forgive someone. Why is forgiveness so difficult for human beings? To forgive someone requires one to eliminate arrogance from one’s mind. Arrogance is a difficult evil to remove from our hearts.

How many times in life have you thought you were right, and the other person was wrong?  But did we have all the information to make that judgment? Probably not, but we became judge, jury, and sentenced the person to banishment from further communication. It is this lack of complete information that we will never have that makes us human. We do not have access to everyone’s thoughts and past experiences. When we hold grudges , its shows our arrogance. Disapproval and disagreement are not vices, but when emotions of anger, and grudge bearing emerge, then arrogance may be present.

To forgive someone does not free the other person from guilt or blame. But it may begin to free you from the evil of arrogance. When arrogance is gone from your mind, anger and grudge bearing are less likely to appear.  Your mind becomes pure, and your future becomes joyous. Forgiveness is the beginning of the Joyous world!  Pray and ask God to give you  the heart to forgive others.

“Evil (greed, arrogance, and self love) sweeping, save us please, Universal Saving God”

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What happens to bad people?

What happens to the bad people in this world? Some people think that they will suffer in hell in the after life. Some feel that they will suffer the consequences in the next life (reincarnation); and there are many that believe that they will go to heaven if they believe with their last breath.

How about a combination of the above? Suppose there is a law of cause and effect, where good thoughts and actions bring forth joy in the future, and bad thoughts and actions bring forth suffering. No human or divine actions can change the consequences of our actions. Each action brings forth either joy or suffering on this earth.

How does God come into the picture?  God wants us to see this relationship of cause and effect. That headache or stomach pain may be God’s guidance to make you good. When we realize God’s guidance and change our thoughts, our minds will become pure.  Joy will blossom in the future.

The bad person will suffer if he or she continues to hurt others. Suffering is suffering, whether it occurs on heaven or earth.  If the bad person changes his thoughts and behavior, he or she will still suffer the consequences of the past actions; but he or she will have a joyous future afterward due to present thoughts and actions. The bad do not have to keep on suffering. It is with this concept that the bad may be able to get into heaven?

Whether one believes in heaven or heaven on earth, the elimination of greed, arrogance, and self love will result in a joyous world, with everyone helping each other. Won’t it be great if everyone has access to heaven or heaven on earth!

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